OPPORTUNITY COST

OPPORTUNITY COST

GUCCI  BAG ? OR  PRADA LEATHER  BOOTS ?


The  best solution , is owning both .
i may stave for  months  to own  all the desire  product , gadget , make up  that  i dreams of .
BUT ....
what  about  LOVE ?

CAN  LOVE  BE AN OPPORTUNITY  COST TOO ?

" i could be with MR A , if i didn't marry you ! "
does this line  sound familiar to you ?


" i could be a billionaire , if i stick with MR M !"


The  key  word of "IF "  and " Could  "
created the word " OPPORTUNITY  COST "

IF  YOU  GIVE  A ME BOX  OF  CHOCOLATE ,
I WILL PICK THE  MY FAVOURITE FLAVOR , THE PIECE  THAT HAS  THE NICEST  PACKAGING , THE ONE THAT SMELL THE BEST , AND THE ONE THAT MAKE OTHERS  ENVY BECAUSE I HAD THE OPPORTUNITY  TO PICK FIRST  AND I  PICKED  THE BEST ONE OUT OF THE BOX .

THIS IS WHAT I CALL " OPPORTUNITY COST IN LOVE "

WHEN DESTINY  CREATED  THE " PERFECT  COUPLE "
FROM ALL OVER  THE WORLD , FAITH  BROUGHT  THE PERFECT  COUPLE  TOGETHER .
THAT IS DESTINED .
YOU END UP WITH THE PERFECT HIM OR HER .
YOU FEEL  HAPPY .
BUT  AFTER YEARS ..................MONTHS.................DAYS.............
YOU STILL HAVE THIS " OPPORTUNITY COST " .
YOU MAY END UP BETTER ,
YOU MAY END UP WORSE THAN YOU EXPECTED ,
BUT ,
YOU  CERTAINLY  END UP SOMEWHERE .

EVEN IF YOU  ARE  THE SMARTEST ECONOMIST IN THE WORLD .
NO WAY , WE ARE ESCAPING  FROM THIS " OPPORTUNITY COST "

BUT  IN THE END ,
LOVE  AND  LIFE IS A FUNNY GAME
NO MATTER  HOW BIG  IS YOUR  OPPORTUNITY  COST IS ,
YOU NEVER TURN BACK WITH WHAT U HAVE DECIDED .
LOOK FORWARD WITH WHAT YOU HAVE , 
AND MOVE FORWARD .

CAUSE LOVE IS A GAME IS A SPECIAL  GAME ,
NO MATTER  HOW  BIG THE "OPPORTUNITY  COST " YOU  LEAD  YOURSELF  INTO ,

WHAT  YOU DECIDE WHEN IT COMES  TO "LOVE" , ALWAYS WORTH . 

VISITING....

Thanks  to  one  of  my  uni  assignment ,

destined  gave  me  a  challenge  to plan  a special  visiting to  a "SPECIAL  HOME ".

At  first  i was  quite  reluctant  to go , cause  i knew  i always  leave  the  special  home  with tears , and 

heart breaking .( emotional , i know )

But , i  did it  any way .......

A bunch  of  my uni buddy  and i went  to an welfare organization " ti ratana " in  salak sauth , kuala lumpur .

early  in  the morning , we met up  in the school ,

and  i lead  the way ...

it  was  my  first time , i drove  my friend's( Susan ) car , a civic ,

i was nervous , driving  and leading .

i guess i did a terrible  job leading ,

all my male  friend say that i drove like i "own  the road ."

TAP  IN THE BACK GUYS , AT LEASE , U ALL STILL CAN CATCH UP . NOT BAD..^^

TI RATANA  IS  QUITE  A BIG WLEFARE SOCIETY , COMPARING TO OTHER WELFARE IN KULA LUMPUR , QUITE WELL SET UP @ ARRANGEMENT . ( 2 THUMB UP )

WE REACH THERE  ABT 10 AM OR SO AND  ONE OF  THE SOCIAL WORKER , FORGOTTEN HIS NAME , LEAD US  AROUND  TI RATANA . THE AREA IS  QUITE  BIG .

IT  HAS OLD FOLKS HOME , DIVIDED INTO MALE @ FEMALE .

OPHANAGE , CHILDREN RANGING  FROM FEW   MONTHS  OLD  BABY  TO SECONDARY .

  THE CHILDREN  OF  TOMORROW...

LOOKING AT THEM , WISHING THAT THEY CAN TAKE  MY PLACE INSTEAD .

CHILDREN  IN THE WORLD  SHOULDN'T  GO THROUGH THIS , IT JUST DOESN'T SOUND FAIR .

AND LOOKING AT THE OLD FOLK , THINKING OF  MY OWN FUTURE .

GOD  CREATE  HUMAN  THAT  DEVELOP MENTAL  AND PSYCHICAL  BY AGE .

IN EVERY CERTAIN AGE , WE ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING IN LIFE  , SOMETHING MINOR 

OR SOMETHING MAJOR .

BUT  LIFE  SOMETIMES  CAN BE SOME TRAGIC THAT , THING HAPPEN WITHOUT OUR PREDICTION .

A WOMEN  WHO RAISE  HIS SON AND DAUGHTER   , PRAY THAT ONE DAY , THEIR WILL TREAT HER THE SAME WAY , WHEN SHE IS OLD .

BUT INSTEAD , GOD  TOLD  AWAY BOTH OF HER DAUGHTER  AND SON . THEY DIE  OF OLD AGE , AND THE MOTHER  IS LEFT  IN THIS WORLD ALL ALONE .

THIS TOO SOUND UNFAIR...

BUT  COMING HERE , HAVING THIS SHORT VISIT ,
I LEARN TO CHERISH WHAT I HAVE NOW ,
PLAN A HEAD  FOR A MORE STABLE FUTURE , HAVE ALTERNATIF ,
AND I ALSO LEARN A DIFFRENT SIDE  OF  MY FRIENDS...

WILL DEFINELY  CHERISH  MOMENT THAT I HAVE WITH YOU...

TO BE A BETTER PERSON .^^

LEAVING TI RATANA :

women are destined to live a tragic life !!!

Nope this is NOT GOOD ENOUGH  !!!!!

Sound familiar ?

In every woman's life , they have their own tragic story .

A women that spend her whole life  worrying  about her weight,

A women who spend her whole life worry about aging .....

And we also get women  who worry about her looks , her JOB , her BABY , her LOVE life , her Financial status , her friend ..... and MANY MANY MORE ..TRUST ME,.....

WORRY !!!!   WORRY !!!!! WORRY !!!!

Women spending their whole life , planning a head , making thing work ...

we ask the question , WHEN ARE THEY EVER GONNA STOP THINKING ?

WELL , sorry guys , but never . The universe some how work these ways , whereby , women are born to think and planning ?

Why ? Because they feel  unsafe ?

may be ....but  READ MY LIP .... it is definitely , not because they want to ....

women will always be a women .....

IF i were given a chance , and just live a day in a man's shoe ....

i definitely will  give it a  try....

NATURAL BEAUTY

walking down the street these day are incomparable with the old days . We can see tons of colour..all over, not only  colourful building , but different style of cloths , and of course colourful make up on each faces .

ever heard of  : natural is beauty ?

Do u mean that in the old days , when your mommy and daddy's generation , when make up wasn't discover , they are all unattractive ? ugly ?

Why are young teenager , putting on tons of chemical on their pretty faces ?

To attract attention from boys ? That is the most " rubbish " ex cusses i ever heard .

Girls today  spend a huge sum of money for cosmetic , for what to look  good in front of Ur partner ?

not being rude or defending anyone , but  image a pretty 16 year old girl , spend one or two hour of her time ,
applying MASCARA , FAKE LASHES , LAYERS OF LIP GROSS., COLOURFUL EYE SHADOW ....IS THAT WHAT WE WANNA SEE AND CREATE FOR OUR FUTURE GENERATION ?

BOYFRIEND @ GIRLFRIEND ISSUE

this is also a common  case , when a boyfriend got so mad of waiting for his girlfriend to apply make up .When all they r going is a simply fats food dinner. i understand that the girl wanna look good...but ..is that really necessary ?

when u go dating is to know more about that person , one way or another ?
think about it , if you use that applying make up time , to get to know more about the person and spend more time with him ,  THINK ABOUT THE TIME THAT U MISSED SO FAR.....

Just think about it , will u were make up 24/7 . WHOLE LIFE ?

DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH CHEMICAL IS IN THE MAKE UP THAT YOU ARE WEARING ?

When you are in your 50s , looking into the mirror and seeing  an older and less attractive you , is that the end of the world ?

when god create human , it was natural .

stay natural , grow natural , die natural . LEARN TO LOVE THE NATURAL YOU , BECAUSE PEOPLE LOVE THE NATURAL YOU FROM THE START ...^^

给宝贝的信。。

宝贝，
离开了你以后。
想起，当天纯真和单纯的我们刚刚认识的时候。

今天的我，在也不明白，是我的愚蠢，还是我没有守信用。。

伤害了你。。

但是我想让你知道。。

我曾用心地来爱着你,

为何感觉不到你？无数次在梦里与你相遇....


这一段感情就这么没有了吗?

难道真的是一场游戏一场梦?
从梦里醒来,咸涩的泪水一次次浸漫上我的眼,我一遍遍问自己,想起曾经的一切刻骨的痛是那么锥心刺肺,你能触摸到吗?

你知道我的心有多痛?

宝贝。。
从头到尾，我明白你对爱情，有自己的见解。

但我希望你明白。。

世界上最漫长的等待，

不是因为等待的时间有多长，

而是在等你接电话前的嘟嘟声，

那几秒钟的等候却比死还难受...

世界上最让人痛心的话，

不是你对我说你不再爱我了，

而是电话内传来留言箱的话,

因为你连话都不对我说清楚...

终于，你还是没有接起你的呼叫，

其实早在打电话给你以前，

我已经知道会有这样的结局了，

但我却宁可受到伤害，

却也要努力地尝试...

即使拨叫了一万通电话，

却也要努力地尝试...



即使拨叫了一万通电话，

你只接了那么一同电话，

我仍旧觉得那9999次的伤害，

是值得的...

对不起宝贝，我让你失望了。。。。。。。

甜蜜的感觉。。

糖果可以带来幸福的味道。。。

孤单的味道。。

当同一个动作重复了几遍。。
也会觉的厌倦。。

在酒吧闹了一晚。。

会到家，对着静静的四面墙。。

不知不觉，孤单的味道自然就出现了。。。

有时候，真的好像有你在身边陪我度过寂寞的夜晚。。。。